Dominant female dating
Birger estimates that in Manhattan's straight, college-grad, under-30 dating pool, there are roughly three women for every two men.
She left you an emotional voice mail when you forgot to respond to her text one time…This girl is crazy right? It is desperate, and makes the girl think: Something must be wrong with him she’ll think. But NEVER should he want her so much that he’ll start putting her on a pedestal and start valuing her over himself and his own life.You become soft because you have the scarcity mentality. You think there are just a few women out there and there’s nothing you can do about it. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not “egotism”.You think: “There is NOBODY out there for me so I better treat this one girl amazing because I don’t know if and when I will ever experience this again”. It’s a necessary precondition to happiness and success.Santa Clara County, for example, is the only populated area in the country where there are more male college graduates than female ones.Do you remember the girl that made you feel the way that no one else could? All night…Imagine being with this woman, getting along just perfect, deeply in love, and having great connection every day.
When you put women on pedestals, you see them as an overly valued commodity and not as a regular human being, which further pushes her away and into the arms of another man who respects himself.